Women Act III
Well I am back at class so have little time to do much writing. But as the saying goes The Show Must Go On!!! I have come to the conclusion that MOST woman are liars. I am not trying to be judgmental but I will speak the truth. Maybe I should not be so narrow minded about that instead maybe I should say that MOST people are liars. Ok maybe only the ones that I know are.
There is a redneck test maybe I should start a liars test.
You might be a liar if:
You end a conversation with a person and you say I will call you tomorrow then you do not.
You might be a liar
You say to your friend No orange hair looks good on you.
You might be a liar.
You say to your wife I love your burnt toast
You might be a liar
You tell your boy friend Go out with the boy tonight I am going to stay home and knit a scarf
You might be a liar
Ok I am not Jeff Foxworthy but I never claimed to be a comedian either.
The point is that MOST people say thing in a haphazardly way with out thinking about what they are saying. Now I know MOST people do not have a problem with that, BUT I DO!!!!
Yes I am a critical person when it comes to people and what they say. I hear what you say and EXPECT you to do what you say you would do. Is that harsh? Yes it is but that is who I am. You can blame the women in my life or the world around me or my up bring or any thing else that you wish too. BUT THAT IS TRUTH!!!! No I do not like to be that way but RIGHT now that is my life and my feelings. THINK PEOPLE THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK you know engadge brain before engadgeing mouth.
Oh to find a woman that KNOWS what it means to speak truth in every thing, I think that would be a miracle in it's self. I know that If any body would read this they might get upset with me but you know what I DO NOT CARE!!! I had a friend that would say if you get mad then just scratch your butt and get glad LOL That is were I am at this time in my life.
Well it is STILL Another Beautiful Day in Paradise
Enjoy your day
Woman Act II
Well a lot has transpired since I wrote last. A young lady that has been coming into my store for awhile. Her and I talked on different occasions I had invited her to my house for supper about two weeks ago of course she said she would come over, but (you guessed it) she did not. LOL I got the shock of my life yesterday she came in and asked if we were going to have supper sometime. I said sure when ever she wanted too. She said how about tonight when I got off work. I told her I did not get off until 12:30 am she said that would be fine. Yes she shocked me because she called me before I got out of work and asked if I would pick her up I said I would. I picked her up at her house then we came back to my place. She had been drinking and still was ( I do not drink) so we talked about different things. Then she wanted to smoke some pot I told her I did not smoke pot any more I have been clean and sober for 14 years. This shocked her that I did not drink or smoke dope. I am amazed when people find out that I do not drink or use any drugs they find it hard to believe. They think that my happiness depends on some external circumstances.
Allow me to share with you a short story that I got one time. I am not sure of it's origin but the true mean of happiness is given in this story.
ATTITUDE
The 92- year-old, petite, well-poised and proud lady, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o’clock, with her hair fashionably styled and makeup perfectly applied, even though she is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today.
Her husband of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, she smiled sweetly when I told her room was ready. As she maneuvered her walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description of her tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on her window. I love it she stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year old having just been presented with a new puppy. Mrs. Jones, you haven't seen the room just wait.
That doesn't have anything to do with it, she replied Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged... It's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do.
Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I've stored away just for this time in my life.
Old age is like a bank account you withdraw from what you've put in. So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of memories. THANK YOU FOR YOUR PART IN FILLING MY MEMORY BANK. I am still depositing.
Remember the seven simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.
6. Be thankful
7. Be faithful to God
That is the short of my life. If you ask me I will tell you what one or ones I still have problems doing. Sorry got kind of side tracked there for a moment.
Back to the events of last night. We talked about God and religion and kids (she has a 16 month old daughter) Her dad is an alcoholic and she is afraid that she will become one also. At the rate she is going she very likely will!! It is very evident to me that she had no clue as too who I was. I was up most of the night mostly watching her sleeping. It was nice to have some body in my house besides me. I will not go into more detail then to say I took her home about 8 this morning, and man I am sure tired. I am sure she is as tired as I am but then she slept more then I did. LOL She had to take her daughter to Easter service this morning. She said that she only went once or twice a year probably like a lot of people Easter and Christmas is all. No I did not go to church this morning even though I was up and could have went. But why be hypocritical and go on special occasions and not the rest of the time. I am speaking of my self and not any body else here. How a person chooses to worship their God is between them and their God it is not my place to judge them and I try very hard not too. Well I need to catch up on some school work so I will go now Hey it is still Another Beautiful Day in Paradise. Enjoy your day
Woman
Well here, it is again internet out. I use Adelphia and in the last three days, it has been out twice!!! Now by the time I get home from work around 1 am it will probably be back on (I hope)
Women today are strange. (Like they have not always been LOL) I went out to a girls house last week because she said I could and told me how to get there. I stopped by and we talked on her porch. Then she said, I have to dry my hair will you call me in a ½ and hour or an hour I said I would so I came back home and called her we talked for about 2 hours on the phone. We talked about her little girl and things like that. Then she said, I have to go get some cigarettes and I will call you back. Therefore, we said goodbye and hung up. Lets see she must have had to go to China to get her cigarettes because she has still not called me back and that was over a week ago. Now this is not the first time this has happened to me. Another time I took a girl out for lunch then we went to a recital at the University. When I dropped her of at her house she said she would call me the next day well she did not do it, but about a month later she called me JUST so I could take her from her brothers place to her apartment. This same girl came into my work after that and gave me her cell number and said Call me some time Sure enough I called her and I left her a message and asked her to call me. Yup you guessed it she has not called me and that was over two weeks ago. So this bring up the issue is it me or is it them. Well in my book, they are liars. See I do what I tell people I will do. I will not tell you I will call you then not call you. The saying is if you cannot keep your vow (or your word) then do not make a vow (or give your word). I take people at face value you tell me you will do something then I full expect you to do. Or at least let me know something came up and you could not do it. It is called courtesy or consideration for another person. Yes, I have HIGH expectation from people but they continue to fall WAY short of it. Well I am sorry I will not change. I do not expect more from them then I am willing to do myself. I could see if I did not do what I say I would do but expect them to do what they say they will do. That is hypocritical and I try very hard not to be hypocritical toward people. Like wise I try not to be judgmental with people either. I think this falls into the category of character and morals. I have character and morals and I will not fall short of these if possible. Yes, the path I have chosen for my life is hard at times but I must preserver. The easy way out is to NOT do what is right. That is for immature people and children. Too do right is hard to do, but some body has to do it. Imagine a world were NOBODY did what was the right thing to do. We would have more M.D.K. (I always wanted to use that saying from Demolition Man LOL) Maybe people should thank me because at least there is one person in America that will do what is right LOL No I am not looking for recognition for what I do. I just wish there was more people like me it gets lonely at the bottom of the world. That reminds me of a song. Oh Lord it hard to be humble when you are perfect in every way LOL LOL I love that song!! No, I am not perfect but it makes me laugh, because I know I am not perfect. Maybe more people should listen to that song then maybe they will see that they are not perfect either. I can see my faults they glare at me when I look in a mirror. That is why I have only one mirror in my house, so I only have to look in it when I am shaving. LOL
As I surmised, my internet is back on now. Now on with the show!! As you may guess, I have had some bad experience with women. The problem is that they all seam to be about the same. I can compare the young ones to the older ones and the way they behave is almost identical. I think it goes back to their childhood. They all have developed a complex with themselves I have to guess here but I would assume that they think that I as a man cannot get along with out them. WAKE UP LADIES I would enjoy your companionship but leave the bulls@#t at the house. If you do not want to hear from me or see me again then just tell me. I am a grown man I can deal with the truth.
Will I ever have a girlfriend/wife? At this point in my life, I would think not.
I have a guideline for a companion that I am looking for, but I do not think she really exists. Maybe my standards are too high, but guess what the criteria for them are the same for me also.
(Morals, Character, Honesty, Dependable, Faithful, Humor, Respectful)
Yes I tried the online dating scene, but most of the ones I talked to wanted some thing else.
well it is still "Another Beautiful Day in Paradise"
Enjoy your day
